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If we follow Internet standards, I'm probably the definition of the most annoying copywriter in the world.
I always send my thoughts in separate bubbles at high speed and I can never send a single emoji (there always have to be several to really convey the emotions).
But my worst habit of all? I need forever to answer. That's why I always turned on my read receipts. And I firmly believe that everyone else should too.
Please stay here with me.
When I switched from my HTC Evo 3D to an iPhone 4S for the first time (201
Even nine years later, the receipts still serve the same purpose. If I know that I cannot answer a text at the moment, I only open it when I have time to answer it. And when I open it, my little fingers type on the keyboard when I quickly switch from "Delivered" to "Read [insert time here]".
I developed this type of rapport with my friends, who know that as long as I have read the text, I will probably reply soon because they can clearly see that I have read it. It's a matter of respect, folks!
Social media apps like Instagram make it impossible to turn off proofs you read, and people still use them to communicate with their friends. The direct messaging feature has become so popular that the company recently added it to the desktop version of the app.
There is also Messenger, which will be the most popular mobile messenger app in the United States as of September 2019 with 106.4 million users. As with Instagram, there is no way to bypass read receipts with this app.
I would like to know why everyone is so scared of the evidence they read in iMessage. It really isn't that serious .
I brought it up to a group of employees and their eyes literally widened at the thought of having their read receipts open. They agreed that they don't want people to know when to read a text. As if it's a bad thing someone knows.
Do your friends really get angry when you read their texts and don't answer them? In this case, it may be time to rate your friends again.
If someone's read confirmation was disabled literally zero is displayed if the text has been confirmed. If anything, you could help alleviate the fear of the other person who just wants confirmation that their thoughts have been recognized.
But as some girls in high school once said to me: "Brenda, you always behave as you know everything ." So I forwarded the question (as a matter of course) to Twitter and .. get mixed results.
Lilllian Barreto, a 25-year-old product development specialist, told me: "I have no problem sending a double SMS to people. If I don't get an answer and [their] read receipts are off, I decide that they are probably out haven't read it, so I'll write it again, "said Barreto. "But if your read receipts are turned on, I know you have read them and I take that as an answer so I don't text them again."
I confess I tend to double or sometimes triple text when someone's read receipts are out. But that's only because I'm very impatient and absent-minded. If anything, I'm just sending the extra messages to be funny.
But another message I received on Twitter made it clear to me that receipts can be read from a dark side.
Victoria Song, a 31-year-old consumer technology reporter at Gizmodo, told me via DM that she wasn't the biggest fan of reading evidence. "Sometimes people are so addicted to getting an answer that they text you umpteen times," she said.
She remembered a time when she didn't even know that her receipts were on display during a conversation and things started to get a little more intense. "I only found out because the person was," I know you read my messages. "" Do you have a problem with me? "
She went on to explain this to her to protect herself, to prevent people from getting angry when she responds or does not respond. But she admits that it is okay to use it for the majority of Leave people you talk to. Your rule of thumb: "If you're dealing with a madman. Turn it off !!! "
There is actually a super simple workaround that I was shocked to find out that not many of my colleagues or friends knew about it: the ability to turn off read receipts for certain people. It's so easy that you are literally looking for a specific contact in the iMessage window, tap the information icon and turn off "send read receipts."
It's just as easy for Android. Go into your settings, tap text messages or conversations, and turn off "Send read receipts".
Another method that I found useful is to open the notification window and read the message on your lock screen Take a look at a message without sending a read receipt if you don't want it immediately.
Or if it isn't h is a really heated conversation where the entire message has to be read, followed by I found a lengthy but helpful workaround. Simply go to your settings, disable your read receipts for all iMessage messages, read the message and then turn it on again.
However, these tricks should only be used in an emergency or on days when you simply feel overwhelmed by the documents you have read.
Otherwise, it's time to end the stigma, read a text, and not respond immediately. Let us assume that the proofs read at the bottom of the text bubble are simply in small print and read: "Yes, I have seen your text and if I do not answer now, I will answer soon."
Or as a Twitter user said it might go the other way.
because I want you to know exactly when I decided I would not answer
– 𝓓𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓷 (@DevinKay_) January 14, 2020
And if that's the case, you may read Receipts also help you recognize who your real friends are.